Style File: What to Wear to the Playground

My friend Sharee emailed me and asked, "What stores are you loving lately? I need to do some shopping and my goal is "how to look cute at the playground." Aha moment! Yes, of course, because JUST because you are at the playground does not automatically qualify you to look a hot mess.

My "playground look" starts with my mama uniform of tee, jeans or shorts and funky accessories. It's almost summer and its time to show some skin and legs (yes, ladies that means break out the razor or book that wax appointment.) It's time to ditch the yoga pants and the saggy running shorts. I know we have to work out but that does not mean your workout gear is your all day gear. I get it, you want to be comfortable, but I promise, we have options. Now mamas, lets dive in.

1. The essential T-shirt is your foundation. I personally am obsessed with navy and white striped tees and I buy about 3 per season, long sleeve for fall and winter, short sleeve and tank for summer. I just love a stripe t-shirt. I pair them with jean jackets, white jeans and shorts, skirts and joggers. Graphic, striped or just plain white, start here for your playground chic and remix it with bold accessories. 

Scoop up a few of these:
Women's Short Sleeve V-Neck Tee - Target  • $8.50

Women's Striped Cap-Sleeved Tees • Old Navy • $14
FOREVER 21 Stripe V-Neck Tee • Forever 21 • $7.80
Three-quarter sleeve football tee in stripe • J.Crew • $39.99
LOVE 21 Chouchou Graphic Tee • LOVE21 • $14.90
Hello tee • J.Crew • $29.99 - Use code "WEEKEND" for 30% off, including sale styles

2. Patterned Shorts. Don't be afraid to mix it up and go a little bold and colorful this summer. You don't have to be a skinny minny to try this trend and you will feel so cute. Playful patterned shorts can take you from the play ground to brunch with the girls while making you look super cute and put together. 

I have my eye on:
Factory 5" Tie-Dye linen-Cotton Short • J.Crew Factory • $29.50
Petite Abstract Riviera Shorts with 3 1/2 Inch Inseam • LOFT • $49.50  - 40% off Everything, no code needed.
LOVE 21 Abstract Print Pleated Shorts • LOVE21 • $11.13
LOVE 21 Abstract Mosaic Drawstring Shorts • LOVE21 • $10.43
Printed summer shorts • Gap • $31.99  - Use code "SUMMER" for 40% off

3. Shift Dress. One essential that you must add to your summer wardrobe this year is a versatile shift dress. Dresses are essential for summer because you can pair them with flat sneaks for busy playground days, cute ballet flats for coffee meetings and errands and dress them up with wedge heels or mid-heels for date night. 

I'm obsessed with these:
OLIVE AND OAK Swish Your Direction Dress • $69.99
Jack by BB Dakota Are We There Yacht? Dress • BB Dakota • $59.99
Women's Sleeveless Chambray Shift Dresses • Old Navy • $34
Women's Striped Linen-Blend Shift Dresses • Old Navy • $30 
- Up to 50% Memorial Day Sale
FOREVER 21 Life In Progress Wrap Belt Chambray Dress • Forever 21 • $24.90  - Memorial Day sale, take 30% select items.

4. Jean Shorts:  I like the ease and comfort of a worn in pair of jean shorts with a little distressing and I also love a crisp, dark pair with a hint of whiskering to pair with a tee and a blazer on those days when I want to mix it up a bit and have to take meetings (in between playdates). 

 Some of my favs are: Denim Shorts in Galaxy Blue with 3 1/2 Inch Inseam • LOFT • $49.50
Plus Size Refuge ""Boyfriend"" Denim Shorts • Charlotte Russe • $27.99
Slouchy Destroyed Denim Boyfriend Shorts • Express • $35.94
Soho Jeans Boyfriend Short - Theatrical Blue Wash • New York & Co. • $39.95
Low Rise Midi Jean Short Frayed Hem - Mossimo • Mossimo • $19.99

5. Accessories: Here is where the magic happens. Using the staples we discussed above, add some new accessories to your wardrobe this summer and everything will feel shiny and new again. I am a sucker for anything with a pattern and hint of whimsy. These are some of my favs and for an added bonus, most give back to communites that are struggling to get out of poverty. Look good by doing good. 
Shop here: 
3. Bracelet : The Shine Project Alex Bracelet • $14
4. Scarf: The Siren Scarf • India Hicks • $58
5. Sandals: Tom's Bella Espadrille • $64

What is your go to summer outfit? Tag your summer style on IG and twitter with #luckyandlovely #mysummerstyle

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Mother's Day Gift Guide

Mother's day is less than a week away and I have rounded up my top picks for gifts for you. What I love most about these gifts is that any mom anything you get. We don't want much, a simple breakfast in bed or brunch out with the family and a love token of your appreciation. New mamas would love a hot shower alone, a cup of tea and a few hours to read a book in peace. A sweet hug and a homemade card will also suffice for showing mom how much you care. Whatever you chose, give it with lots of love and mom will appreciate it.

Happy day to all the mamas out there. May your Sunday the filled with love, hugs and snuggles from your favorite people.

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Lovely Mama: 5 survival tips for working mamas

Happy Thursday lovely mamas! Women ask me all the time, "how do you find the time to "_________________" insert random task here (do a side-hustle, get your hair done, read a book, cook a hot meal, have date night) with all the other things you have to do for your family? I decided to share some of my tips, tricks and favorites to help all you hardworking mamas out there. Now I am not saying I am some perfect mama who looks glowing and beautiful at carpool, works out everyday and while cooking a perfectly balanced pinterest-worthy meal in a spotless home. Pul-lease. Let's get real. I am a real mama with the same amount of chaos and crazy as many of you, but I enjoy life and I have learned a few tips along this journey that have actually given me back some of my sanity.

1. Early Riser
Wake up before your family gets up. I know this may be an unpopular tip but trust me, it works. Getting up 30-45 minutes earlier than your family will give you time in the morning to meditate, exercise, get clarity on your intentions for the day and crank out a few tasks before the day starts. Here are tips on how to wake up earlier and what to do:
• move your alarm across the room

• do 20 minutes of stretching, walking or aerobic exercise
• do not look at facebook or email, read a motivational book or blog post
• plan your day or do a task that needs to be done 

2. Plan out your week
Grab a cheap planner from Target and sit down (or hide in the bathroom) on Sunday night and look at your schedule for the week. Is everything absolutely necessary? If its not a "hell yea!" so no. It's ok, you don't have to volunteer for every single thing at your kid's school.

3. Time block
Time blocking is great for doing tasks for your side hustle. Your blocks can be as small as 15 minutes. You can do anything in 15 minutes like
• make 2 phone calls
• write 2 thank you notes
• check on 2 clients
• brainstorm 2 blog posts
• plan meals for the next 2 days
• pack 2 lunches
• spot clean a room

Notice my theme of doing things in 2? You can do at least 2 tasks in 15 minutes.
Break down your task, set an alert on your phone and give yourself a break if you skip a day (or 20).

4. Plan your meals
Take an extra 20-30 minutes to plan meals for the week or even for the month and boom! Now you have a plan for meals. Personally, the what-to-cook-for dinner-dilemma is the most menacing and stressful tasks I have. Even if you don't stick to it, I like having an idea of meals for the week. I try to cook seasonally and let what is fresh and available dictate most of my meals. Frankly, sometimes my meal planning means rotating the same five meals each week but there are no complaints from my family so it works for me. It doesn't have to be perfect, it just needs to be planned so you don't have to think about it.

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5. Buy back your time. Yet another, meaningful tip I learned from the lovely ladies I work with. While I adore being in a mentorship role to my team, sometimes I feel like I am drowning in tasks and to-dos. Until I learned to buy back my time. Yes! Duuuuuuh!!! Why didn't I think of that? Your time is valuable and you can pay others to do tasks that free you up to do what you love like, spending time with your kids or hubby, working on your sidehustle, or taking time for yourself and self care.

Here are a few ways to buy back your time:
• Set a timer for 15 minutes in the morning and evening and have "family pick up time" to save time on huge housecleaning tasks. A little bit each day helps. 

• Prep and cook most of your meals on Sunday evenings. Using a crockpot has been an enormous time saver for me. I make ahead freezer meals (pop over to my pinterest board for LOADS of recipes here , here and here) and pop one in the crockpot on hectic days. YUM!

• Hire a teenager or friend to watch your kids for a few hours (you can also swap with other mama friends), do administrative tasks in your office, prepare packages for shipping.

• Try not to go to the store. For anything. Shop online and buy in bulk to save money and time.
  • Try Instacart to bring me fresh groceries from Whole Foods & Costco. If they are in your area, you have to try this, order online and have your groceries to your house in an hour. Hello time saver....and sanity saver.
  • While you are in the mood of having things delivered, let me share, I am completely obsessed with Club W to have affordable, sustainable, personally selected wines delivered to my door.
  • I have become obsessed with the cleaning supplies and body care products from Honest Company, I order the Honest Bundles and keep my house fresh and sparkly clean. I have to feel good about what I am using and this makes it easier.
  • Spend a quick 15 minutes doing your own nails and save time going to the nail salon. I love being a Julep Maven and getting a new shipment of fun nail colors each month to try. I save time and have a gorgeous manicure every week. It's relaxing and refreshing to do at my desk once a week before I start my day. Try your first box FREE with code SCORE (just pay $2.99 shipping).

Cheers to you hardworking mamas out there, I hope these tips help you keep your sanity and sense of peace. Your hardwork is much appreciated by your family. Take some time to be in the moment, hug and snuggle your little ones (or big ones if they will let you).  

Tweet this: Mamas, dedicate 1 hour a day or even 1 hour a week to self-care. Lovely mamas deserve self-care and your family will love having a happy mama.

What are your favorite tips for balancing work and motherhood? I would love to know.

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Warby Parker | Luminary Collection

I love when things are incredibly well designed. Products that are well crafted and thought out with details are a joy to look at and use. Like I have always said, when you look good, you feel good. Recently I was introduced to the new Luminary Collection by Warby Parker and I am absolutely smitten with this collection for several reasons.

• The collection is inspired by visionaries, artists and people who dared to be different. I LOVE this!
• The materials for the styles are made from lightweight Japanese titanium.
• The five styles have a very vintage inspired look with a modern feel. 
• Each style looks amazing in clear glasses and in darker lenses for shades.
• With each purchase a pair gives someone in need a pair. Giving back is so important to me.

The best part? You can try 5 for free at home or visit your local store if there is one in your area ( I am lucky! We have one here that I must visit, STAT!). Cheers! It is almost the weekend. What are you most looking forward to this weekend?


Beauty Bag: The only beauty oil you will ever need.

If you're anything like me, you are so over the assault winter had on your hair skin and nails. I know what you are thinking, "not another beauty oil review," but grab a cup of tea and scoot a little closer so I can tell you why I love this so much.

So, I wear my hair in a protective style and after taking it out, it was oh so so so dry. One part heredity and two parts neglect. (I know!!! terrible!) I was lucky enough to be given a chance to try out Argan Oil by goPure and I jumped (nearly out of my chair) at the chance. I had wanted to try argan oil for a while, but I didn't know much about it (and honestly was afraid it would smell terrible). 

According to GoPure, its 100% argan oil is "liquid gold," and one of nature’s most effective moisturizers. Yielded from the kernels of the argan tree, a plant that is native to Morocco, argan oil offers many beneficial nutrients. Gentle enough for sensitive skin, argan oil absorbs quickly without leaving behind a greasy or sticky residue. It can be used all over the body, including the delicate skin of the face and neck. 

Hellooooo! 4 ounces of vitamin E packed, skin-loving fatty acid, sun damage skin-cancer fighting 100% organic cold-pressed goodness all for little ole me? Yes please. It arrived at the house super fast. Check! The bottle came with a dropper for easy application and nicely packaged with no strong oder. Double check. My dry cuticles drank it up while I massaged a 4 or 5 drops on my scalp and hair right away. Instant softness. Yep! Think Brillo pad turns to cashmere. By the next morning the oil had turned these parched tresses into a soft detangled fro. Hollaaaaaa! Now, I have used beauty oils before (some ranging from super inexpensive-$6 to pretty pricey-over $75 eek!!) for oil cleansing and moisturizing my complexion so I am no stranger to oils. The real test was going to be my Mexico trip. I mixed the oil with my sunscreen and it gave my skin a nice healthy glow and it didn't spill in my travel bag. Hoooray!!! I think for $16 bucks, this delivers a pretty powerful punch.

I love sharing my fab finds with you all. Please do let me know if you try this. I would love to know what you think of it.

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New Series: The Woman Across the Room

Happy Tuesday Lovelies!! After spending waaaay too much time thinking and not doing, I am finally sharing something that is so near and dear to my heart. Say hello to my new series of posts titled "The Woman across the Room" to highlight fabulous women in business. I am so lucky to get to work with amazing women in my business. Leading and coaching my team has filled truly filled my cup and I can't wait to share their stories with you.

Last summer, we learned a story about "the girl across the room" from our founder and CEO Jessica Herrin this past year at Hoopla our annual sales training and inspiration conference (think your best girlfriends, cocktails, fashion and fun for 4 days!). In this video, Diane Von Furstenberg shares her story of admiring the woman across the room. She says "when you are somewhere and see a woman across the room who you think has it all together and is so confident and beautiful and who makes you feel insecure about yourself, remember that to someone else YOU are the other woman across the room."


Introducing my first "Woman Across the R00m" Stella & Dot Stylist on my team: Carol McKnight

1. Tell us a little about yourself Carol.
Wife, Mother of Two, Glam Mama of 2, Lover of Yoga, dark chocolate and all things chic! 

2. What inspired you to give Stella & Dot a whirl?
The gorgeous accessories of course! But also I came across Stella & Dot at a time in my life when I was looking for something new and exciting and this filled that void!

3. What do you have going on with your life outside of Stella & Dot? How do you balance it all? I'm a wife, I work full-time, I have an additional family side business and I play a very active role with my grandkids.  I prioritize based on what matters to me most and my needs at the time.  That's why I love Stella & Dot because it gives me to flexibility to enjoy it all on my terms.

4. What advice would you give someone wanting to start a business? Just do it!  What do you have to lose,  especially with Stella & Dot, with the low investment, it's a WIN, WIN!  Style + Extra Cash, how can you go wrong!

5. What is your favorite little blue card purchase?Not one in particular, but overall just having that extra stash of cash to pamper myself, take that weekend trip or indulge in those shopping excursions with no guilt or shuffling of funds :)

6. Just for fun!
-early bird or night owl? Night owl!
-coffee or tea? Both, just depends on what I'm feeling that day!
-statement necklace or delicates? Layered delicates of course!

7. Favorite combo that you can't seem to stop wearing?
The delicate hoop from the Bianca Earrings, Bar necklace from the Rebel Cluster & Rebel Pendant. 

That was so fun! Thank you Carol for sharing your #SDJoy with us! You are one of the 999,947th reasons why I LOVE my Stella & Dot tribe! 

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What I am packing for my Mexico vacation

Have you ever been to a place that makes your soul come alive? When I was 19, I traveled to Mexico and Guatemala with a friend to go to a spanish language school in Guatemala. Because her passport never arrived, she had to return home but we relaxed in Playa del Carmen, Mexico for a week before we were due to leave. I continued on alone and when I returned, I visited a magical beach called Tulum. Yes, the Riviera Maya is dotted with large luxury and glittery resorts but Tulum maintains it's natural laid back vibe. 2 years ago, David and I escaped for a romantic holiday over Thanksgiving and he we sick with cold and flu. My poor babe was miserable for an entire week. We stayed at La Revé (which was lovely and I highly recommend it) and took a day trip to Tulum. He surprisingly recovered briefly and when we got to the top of the cliffs at the Mayan ruins overlooking the bright turquoise sea, his soul came alive as well. We languished for the day-eating, sipping, reading, napping and frolicking in the ocean before returning to Playa.

Since that vacation, I vowed that we would return to Tulum and soak it all up again. Reservations are made and I can't wait to share our adventures with you. This time we are staying at Sanara Tulum, a luxury eco chic hotel and wellness center and a premier yoga retreat studio. 

But first a girl has to decide what to wear. Ok, so this is my dream suitcase. 
First up are the swimsuits. I'm a sucker for anything ruffled and I'm dying to try out the high waist bottoms of this American Apparel suit. So fun!

Then the cover ups...Because a girl has got to hop on the bike and head to downtown Tulum for a fresh lunch of fish tacos and margaritas. Can you keep a secret? I already scooped the J. Crew white eyelet tunic. It is on sale with an extra 25% off with code "SALELOVE". It was practically irresponsible not to get it.
I'll need a straw fedora to keep the sun out of my eyes.
I'm loving this black and white one from BCBG MAXAZRIA.
Finally, the beach bags. Seriously, I have a problem. Why is this the largest group? I am a sucker for a straw beach bag. Give me a market tote and I am a happy happy girl. I've had my eye on the Mar y Sol (every single one of them) for months now. This is the perfect excuse to grab mine. The little pom poms are too adorable. Decisions, decisions!